Do you know that most relationships wind up on the rocks because the individuals in them act out, much against their own freewill, negative self destructive patterns that were pre-programmed deep in their subconscious minds early on in their lives? Do you know those patterns are rooted in early negative memories of abandonment, abuse, neglect, rejection, humiliation, shame, being unwanted or unloved etc.? Do you know such memories leave one feeling and believing themselves to be inadequate, unlovable, bad, defective, worthless, shameful, useless, unattractive, unwanted, and so on? Do you see how such implanted limiting beliefs create a self fulfilling outcome where successful relationships are simply not allowed to flourish? Finally, do you know that there is only one way out of this prison anchored in the mind and that is to permanently and completely erase/delete those memories and their associated beliefs once and for all? Want to learn more how this might help you achieve and sustain fulfilling and healthy relationships?
Early negative events, as mentioned, get downloaded into the subconscious mind and while there they are responsible for generating and supporting many of the negative "self" beliefs one has. For instance an experience of early abandonment will have associated with it such feelings/beliefs as: I'm unlovable, I'm unwanted, I don't deserve to be alive, I don't deserve to be happy, I'm worthless, I don't belong, I'm defective and so on.
These beliefs, like a backdrop on a stage, set the tone for a person's life much like a hypnotic suggestion does. In other words, the beliefs behave like a series of life barriers that reinforce and sustain the negative beliefs themselves. For instance, if one believes they are unlovable then that would conflict with the possibility of ever having a successful and loving relationship.
So, the negative beliefs set up a series of self sabotaging patterns that undermine and literally destroy the person's Heartfelt (and natural) desire for a healthy, loving, successful and fulfilling relationship. These patterns are triggered automatically and beyond the person's awareness whenever they try to over-ride the negative limiting self beliefs stored inside of them.
A simple metaphor here is that of the thermostat that keeps the room temperature fixed within a certain limited range or set point. Once the set point temperature is programmed in then one can rely on the thermostat to do its job. In the same way the negative limiting self beliefs behave as the person's life set points.
As I think you can see unless one is able to change, or delete, the pre-programmed set points, and not simply temporarily over ride them, the person's life is going to repeatedly return to the undesirable state. What is most unfortunate about these set points is that they were programmed into the individual early in life and often are difficult to discern.
A decade ago it was discovered that negative memories, their associated negative limiting beliefs/feelings and hence the negative limiting self set points could be rapidly, permanently and completely erased.
When this happens the individual literally wakes up, reclaims freewill control over their personal destiny and old self sabotaging patterns progressively and irreversibly vanish. This frees them up to reclaim full and discerning control over all aspects of their lives. In particular it allows them to re-establish a new and natural series of self set points that are sourced from their own Life Force Energy.
This leaves them feeling confident, competent, capable, adequate, in control, strong, attractive, lovable, centered, clear, peaceful emotionally independent, self assured, self sufficient, resilient, creative and empowered just to name a few.
So if you are one of those individuals whose relationship life seems to have been hijacked by old destructive patterns that have been difficult to sake off then you may wish to visit the website below where you can request a free introductory telephone/Skype coaching consultation employing a special process that will begin to set you free.
Nick Arrizza, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor is now an International Expert Life, Relationship & Spiritual Tele-Coach, Author the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process® (MRP).
A Free 1 Hour Introductory MRP Telephone/Skype Consultation and a Free E-copy of my new book are available upon request. (You will be asked to cover your own long distance telephone charges)
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